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writes:i discovered that my Gf was having numerous affairs with men on the internet and made a coouple of dates to meet them one she did meet in a hotel. she claims nothing happened....we are just about to move in together Am I crazy? Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): If i was you i wouldnt consider moving in with her. sorry, but once a cheat always a cheat. She wont be able to help herself. I knew someone quite like her once and they just cannot help themselves. they have to constantly prove that they can pull, whether it is on the net or outside. Dont move in, you will regret it. You need to keep your sanity and this will tip you over the edge.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): You don't really believe she didn't do anything with him in the hotel, right? They obviously met up for sex. Leave her, she's not worth it.
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reader, lanaguy  +, writes (23 October 2007):
 honestly man i dont think u should be moving in with her,i think u shouldnt even be with her if she is doing that to u..u deserve better than that,but it is up 2 u and if u do move in together it can make things stronger or it can make things wurse..but at least she is in ur sight more then she would ever be..its up 2 u if u wanna move in with her because what we say doesnt change how u feel,in the end it will cum 2 ur decision no 1 elses..
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): One word - Yes.
Moving in wont change her, it is obviously habbit to be looking for greener grass for her.
If it was just a bit of virtual fun then she would never have met up with them, especially not in a hotel. Sounds like something a female escort would do. You need to cut your losses, your feelings have not even been taken into consideration here.
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