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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Have been with my boyfriend for 7yrs, he used to be so romantic, birthdays he would spoil me rotton, would buy me flowers every month etc send me cute texts, but the past 6 months thats all changed. Most nights we both do seperate things and then just go to bed. I have tried to talk with him and he says oh i will make more effort but doesnt. He goes out with work friends every week, should i become less avaliable? because i feel its always me asking for attention etc should i start to ignore him? Things are not the same and im so upset as we was still soo romantic till say a year ago :(I just don't know what else i can do?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (1 September 2011):
Cool it with this guy for about six months... and, if you hear from him after that time, make contact and ask him - point blank - if he wants a B/F;G/F arrangement, or is he just "in it" to screw with your feelings and your head.....
Good luck....
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