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*idisha
writes:My fiance has stopped contact with me coz he saw my ex at my home one day. We were planning to marry this year coz we have a 1 year old baby. Now he is hurt and has moved to another city to avoid us but he still loves me and our baby a lot but doesn't trust me anymore. Please suggest a way to win him back.
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reader, Tiffany (norwich)  +, writes (26 December 2009):
you should watch the movie, (fireproof) but as for the ex y was he at your house...you did hurt him by that would it hurt you if you saw his ex at yourhouse? when you watch the movie....really think about it. if you want it to work out remember you hurt him and you are chasing him now,,,you want him back right? you need to prove it to him it's not going to happen over night? write him, and just keep writing him letters on how you feel and how much you are sorry and love him...if he is worth it to you, then you send him a sorry gift, write him, call him, ask him to meet up with you one day.just to have a talk ... because you don't like the results of your mess up...just show him how much you love him and want him back...sometimes a split up is a second chance...if he loves you then he will think real hard about everything you are doing and eventually he will show some signs of wanting to be around you more, just try it. you have a baby together that is a special thing that right there and he will think about things and you have to have patience cuz your on his dime now .... my e-mail is [email address blocked] write me an e-mail to let me know if you decide to take my advice and how things are going....i wish you luck and hope for the best for you and your family.
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reader, vidisha +, writes (3 April 2008):
vidisha is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have already done all tat. when he saw my ex at my place he in frustration slapped me and went away. after a week he came back and we had a fued where he forcibly took away our baby and was going away. in my panic i lodged a police complaint and he was caught by the police even though he himself came back with the baby within half an hr. then i bailed him out and we were together for 7 days and on the 8th day he told me he had done all this coz he was leaving the city and going away from us forever. he still loves me a lot but he says even though he knows i will not do anything wrong i have broken his trust and he cannot forgive me. he wants to lead a lonely life coz of my betrayal. plz help me. am very depressed and suicidal as coz of my stupidity my baby will lose her father and a good family life
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): tell him the truth. honesty always succeeds. you shouldnt have had your ex at your place in the first place, even if you have no relationship with him now it is wrong. try telling him about your child and that she/he needs a father and how much u really miss him. remind him of the times u spent together etc
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