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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Last year I joined a walking group online. I noticed a guy had viewed my profile a few times at the time but we had never met. 8 months went by and I finally made an appearance and met the group in person. The guy who had viewed my profile was there, we didn't speak on the walk. Later at the pub I was the last to sit down and some of them said they had reserved me a seat which was next to him. He said 'sit here and said my name'. I thought that was odd as I not spoke to him or introduced myself. He is very outgoing and has a laugh. I noticed when I spoke to him he didn't or rarely made eye contact but I did catch him look at me. When we left he touched my shoulder on the way out of the door then added me on Facebook. Could he be interested?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (3 April 2017):
Yip sounds like he could be!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 March 2017):
I would say yes, he is at the very least curious about you. On the other hand, he might LOOK up ALL the women in the group and go down the list to see who might fancy him back. Impossible to tell.
I find it odd that you call him outgoing, yet he doesn't approach you till the END of the hike when he COULD have spent time ON the hike talking to you and getting to know you.
He knew your name and could EASILY have said hi I'm Bob, how are you? But what did he do? He "reserved" a seat next to him and then NOT talked to you. That's oddity #2.
Have you checked HIM out on Facebook since you now are "friend" on there? Does he TALK to you on Facebook?
ARE you interested in HIM?
I can't really put my finger on it, but his actions kind of irk me a bit. My guess is he KNEW you were able to see that he checked out your profile SEVERAL times, he saved you a seat NEXT to him and STILL ignores you. I don't know if it was because he was nervous, shy at heart, hoping for YOU to make a move OR if he is just casting a wide net to see what might bite.
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