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Was it a date or "hanging out"

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Question - (19 March 2015) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2015)
A age 26-29, * writes:

I've never had a bf so I'm pretty clueless about everything. My crush has never has a gf so he is also lost when it comes to dating.

I've liked him for a little over a year and in the beginning I told him I liked him but the feeling wasn't mutual because he liked someone else. But we have gotten really close over the last few months and I think since he has stuck around our friendship has changed a lot and we have gotten really close. And he may be flirting but I'm not sure because no one has ever flirted with me before so he is probably just being nice.

So today I went to lunch with my crush. First he drove to my house to pick me up. When I got outside he got out of the car to open my door for me (it was locked and he was all embarrassed but it was a cute gesture hahaha). On the way to the restaurant he showed me that he brought a bunch if his CDs for me to borrow. We went to subway for lunch where he paid for me, and we talked the whole time. After we ate he was going to take me back to his house to show me something I was asking him about recently, but his parents were home and he didn't wanna get yelled at for bringing a friend home before he did his chores so he took me home lol. On the way home I said we should go to a movie or something. He said he couldn't because obviously he had to do his chores, but he said that him and his friend who I know are going to the movies on Friday and if I want I could go too. 

So was this lunch just hanging out or was it a date. I'm so confused and I have never had a guy show interest in me so I don't know what signs to look for.

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A female reader, WhenCowsAttack United States +, writes (20 March 2015):

Definitely a date!

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