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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Summary: 1. My friend likes this guy.2. He text-ed me inappropriate things.3. I told her and now she is mad at me?4. Should I have never told her?5. Will she end our friendship when I was just telling her what happened?------------------------------------------------------So, I'm 20 years old and so is my friend she has kinda dated this guy and I say kinda because they will date for a week or two and he will get mad at her for the silliest things and break up with her which means he will have sex with her and then dump her.She is the type of girl who says she want to be besties with a guy just to have sex with him thinking he will fall in love with her. Harsh? I know. But the truth is just that the truth. Well... she was telling me she hopes this guy let's call him Joe is the one that God has planned for her but it bothered me because he was just texting me asking me have I ever had sex and how long did I want to keep my v-card? This was all just the other day when I was just trying to invite him to my bday lunch party. So, I told her! I couldn't help it. Not saying he wanted to be with me but her being my friend and him being her "soul-mate"... if you asked her then she had to know. Was I wrong? Now she is like not talking to me. Should I give her time?Is our friendship over?I probably should have kept it to myself.But I just hate seeing her being so naive because she thinks all these guys are nice and aren't using her but they are they all sleep with her but never ask her out and she does not realize that she is nothing but a f**k-buddy to them and then I'm stuck hearing about this crap for months.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2012): No you wasn't wrong, you were only looking out for your friend, although it was probably a waste of time as its not had the desired effect. She's will have to learn the hard way unfortunately if she won't listen.
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