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writes: I met a really great guy at a wedding. We had a great time all evening, talking, dancing and flirting and ended up sharing a bed. In the morning there was no akwardness, he kissed me pretty intensely before I went back to my room to get changed after we woke up. It was all crazy after that with lots of people everywhere, but we hugged goodbye and he squeezed my hand. I sent him a message later on saying that I'd had a great time and that maybe we should meet up next time I'm up North (he lives 3 hours away). He replied saying that he'd had a great time too and that I should definately give him a shout when I'm next around. I suggested meeting but he replid to say he wasnt free for that day, but didnt suggest anything else. I need some male opinion as to what that means...is that good or am I being fobbed off? My instincts and his behavior suggest he is interested but I'm unsure now.
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reader, paborama +, writes (20 September 2006):
Hiya,
three hours away is a long way. I would suggest that, scary though it is, you make the extra effort to call him as text messaging contains limited information and there is always the worry that they may simply not have got your message or been too occupied to reply. If you really do like this bloke he needs to know and he needs to get to know you as a person if you see a full relationship blossoming. Try writing down key points on a piece of paper before you call, this should help prevent you getting tongue tied and also reduce the chance of you remembering something you wish you'd said after your cxall has ended. Come across as mature and open to debate about the situation. Good luck and remember: if it doesn't work out then the distance won't be an issue; if it does work out then the effort was worth it...
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