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writes:Ok, I'm 14 and my bf is 16 andI gave him his Christmas present 2 days ago, which was a stuffed animal that he absolutly loved. I also wrote him a note about how great the past 2 months have been, which is how long we've been together. I don't know if he was just in shock of how much I said I love him or what. I mean, he always says how much he loves me but I don't think that he was really expecting to hear it from me. Do you think that he was just in a state of shock or what?I'm new to the whole kissing thing. How exactly do you do it? Also, how do you know if he wants to do more than just kissing? What I mean is, how do you know if he wants to have s-e-x?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wasn't sayint that I want to have sex. All I was asking was how do you if he wants to? He's told me that he doesn't want to make me uncomfortable in any way so I know that if things get out of hand and I tell him, he'll be fine. Just, once again, how do you know???
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (27 December 2007):
 if your kissing someone and there hands are all over you and it's gettin a little over rated thats when he wants it. But kiissing just comes naturaly get him to teach you tell him your new to it he will understand xx
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reader, bleh222 +, writes (25 December 2007):
 okay, after 2 months you guys are not going to be in love especially at your age. i'm 14 too, but you're too young. kissing is fine but don't start thinking about sex. a lot of people my age are getting into that and they regret it. also you don't want to risk getting any diseases at your age. i would say just stick to kissing.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (25 December 2007):
 Hon, you really don't want to get mixed up in s-e-x at your age.
You only have your childhood for a few years but you can always look forward to sex.
Too many times I have advised girls and guys to wait.
In most cases they tell me later that they wish they had listened to me.
Please don't be one of those. It really isn't worth it.
Only when it is too late do they find out what I was trying to explain.
Be a kid while you have the chance. Doc
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reader, nikandme +, writes (25 December 2007):
 watch you'r self, there is a good age differince there. im not saying he is bad for you becouse of his age at all.but it can be easy for a older person to trick a yunger person into geting them to sleep with them when thay are not ready.i have seen it more then one's with my friends. im 14 to and i would never date a 16 year old girl. but if all is going good. and he is good for you. as long as it is ok with his perant's and you'r perant's hold on to him....only one problem, if you are still together when he turn's 18 it will be ilegal.
best of luck, hope i could help.
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