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writes:My husband went up north got drunk and danced with all the ladies two weeks ago. This past weekend we were in the same bar and the 22 year old among those ladies was very unfriendly to me he had his arm around her and said something in to her ear and moments later she said to me "I thought you were going home" Did she follow him home two weeks ago, he lives a block away and I did see scratches on his back Monday morning. why else would this girl be challenging me at this point, if she had no claim, if nothing happened but flirting?
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reader, malvern  +, writes (2 May 2008):
 This girl has no right to be challenging you. He's your husband and she's bang out of order. It's obvious to me that he has said derogatory things about you to her. This is why she feels she has the upper hand. This man needs sorting out. If you happen to go to the same place again make sure you look absolutely fabulous, be confident, be charming with everybody and make her see what a lovely person you are. This will make her feel uncomfortable. Also try to engage in conversation with a few men because your husband won't like it.
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reader, Dawnie +, writes (2 May 2008):
 Well she sounds like a nasty piece of work staking a claim on your husband, who does she think she is? You must have the patience of a saint because if it had been me i would have floored her. As for your husband he is certainly showing you no respect with his actions. You need to have a very serious talk with him about what he is up to as this does not sound good at all, no way would i tolerate this. I would certainly want to know how he got those scratches on his back as well, get some answers from him and if he refuses do some detective work. If he is cheating, and i'm sorry to say this but it sounds as if this is the case, you need to show him the door.
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (2 May 2008):
 You husband is disrespectful to you if he has he arm around this woman and whispering things in her ear while you are sitting there, how would he like it if you had your arms around a guy and whispering in his ear while he was sitting there, have you said it to him, ask him to put himself in your shoes.
Sorry to have to say this, but something must have gone on, she is acting like this is her man and basicly telling you to go...i have seen in the past if your partner or husband is disrespectful to you in front of people, they will in turn treat you with disrespect if something is going on (not everyone of course)...Sorry to be saying this as i know this is obviously bothering you alot, i have gone out with a guy in the past and he treated me like this, it was terrible, go with your gut.
You need to speck with you husband and get to the bottom of this and make sure he knows you are not going to put up with this behaviour as you deserve to be treated better than this and this behaviour will have to stop and be more respectful towards you.
Take care xx
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reader, bimmer  +, writes (2 May 2008):
listen to your intuition, does he usually have his arm around other women when he is out with you?Maybe she didnt "follow" him home, maybe she received an invitation, her behaviour certainly seems to be more of a staking a claim than mere friendliness
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