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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I met this lad who worked at our company for 3months. We got on really really well and I was sure he fancied me. He was quite flirty and on several occassions blushed wen talking to me.after he left the company I didn't see much of him but I met him out on a night out and it turned out he jus split fm his girlfriend.I was pleased by ths but he said she had cheated on him and was with ths person nw. We got chatting again and he admitted that he fancied me and I told him I liked him so we arranged a date. It was g8 and I ended up staying the night with him. We went out again but his ex called him. She was upset he was with me and I cud tell it had bothered him.we talked about her and he told me they had been together 4yrs. We met a cuple more times and it was g8 but suddenly he stopped all contact and I saw him out wiv his ex. I didn't bother to ask why but I still feel really hurt and confused. I really liked him. Was he just using me to make her jealous? But if so why did he seem so into me in the beginning?
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reader, dora_d +, writes (7 August 2008):
hi, it sounds to me like he didnt just use you to make her jealous, he probaly really did like you and still probaly does, but for his ex, seeing you with him must have made her jealous and realised what she was missing or things maybe didnt work out for her with her other guy she went off with so she probably wanted him back, he sounds really sweet n because he was with her for 4years he may have felt he wanted her back too, if he is sensible he wouldnt have got back with her after she cheated and i can bet that there relationship doesnt last so long this time hun! if i was you id forget about him for the time bein and move on babe!
hope this helps xx
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