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*anani_flower
writes:hey, i wrote in a cuple weeks ago asking should i stay or walk away from my married boyfriend, the thing is. i got 1 reply saying stay, i saying leave and 1 saying run.Ok here I go I lovge my boyfriend we are both Libras crazy. we havee been together three crazy years of up and down. I wore us both out but we both tryed the problem was just tryed at diffrent times then the other. Know things have gotten where I feel like he's not happy and is going else where ok I already know he is her name is Krista, we live in hawaii and hes a captain and she works on a boat next to him. First off Im pist she not that hot what the f***. I have talked to him about this situation for months nothing has changed but the fact that I cant do it any more. I dont want to be in this situation but I love him with every thing in me. I guess the only thing that makes me a little happy about think about leaving is he'll be happy.i'm writing today as i want to ask you all how do i walk away from someone i love so much. its so hard i've tried many times but cannot. i believe you have to want to do something to do it. i dont want to. so really am asking for help on where to go with this 1. thanxI need help is there a forgeting machine that I could borrow Reply to this Question
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (13 March 2009):
 One thing you can do is face up to reality. The guy is married, and now you think he has yet another girlfriend. He's not treating you right. And you're not treating yourself right by living in this false position; not only are you sleeping with another woman's husband, but it's set up so he'll never be all yours.
You're right; you have to want to do it. So once you make your mind up to do it, just cut it off clean and walk away.
The next step is to get busy. Get involved in your own life. Refocus at work; take on new projects or get a new job if your current one is boring. Join clubs, join a church. Meet people. Volunteer. Take a class or two on a subject you've always felt passionate about. Allow other people and projects to fill the gap he leaves behind.
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