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writes:I 'met' a year in my school a few months ago, though she'd always been there, it's only since a few months that i 'noticed' her. When i started hanging around with her, I asked myself 'do i like her as a friend or am i atracted to her?' many times. Turns out that that I really love her, she's always in my mind. Just before the holidays, I desided to tell her my my feelings for her, but, as one thing led to another, I ended up telling it over msn. We had a long talk, in wich she said she did feel the same way. But now, when we saw eighother at school and I asked her again, she told me she didn't know anymore and wanted to just be friends again. What am I supposed to do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 I think you just need to give her some space and just be a friend to her i know that it is very hard on you but if she changed her mind once she might do it again, but dont hold on to that, just accept that she does not want to be with you at the moment and move on, accept that she is just one of your friends and try and move on. Dont bring up your feelings again unless you feel like she is flirting with you. Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): If she says she doesnt have feelings for you I'm really sorry but you have to move on. I've gone though the same, loved a guy, except he said he liked me back then said he just wanted to be friends. You just have to move on and try to forget as hard as it is. Do something to take your mind off her, a new hobby. Try to block her off virtually as well e.g. msn and facebook, even if its hard at first you have to be strong and I'm sure you will have the support of your friends behind you. You cannot force someone into a relationship and if she was well then it wouldnt be true.
Hope it works out in the end.
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