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anonymous
writes:ok, here goes, two guys, P and R. they bith say they like me, only problem is, i like them both back. P and i have been flirting for about three months, but he has even said himself that he wont take it any further than that, although he claims to love me. and he wont even talk to me in ublic, only on online social sites.R, however, does talk to me in person, and we have been close freinds for years. he is sweet and funny, and so is P.so what should i do? my freinds say go for R because he's sweet and kind and better for me, and i'm just too confused. unless i get some really good advice, i'm just going to do what i always do... nothing, i'll wait it out till it blows over so no-ones feelings are hurt. so please? any advice, this is really keeping me up at night.
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (2 March 2011):
 I think P is probably embarrassed. He's at the age that maybe all his friends will tease him if he has a crush/gf.
R sounds very cool though. I think i'd have to go with your friends on this one. And you and he are friends which is also good.
Also if P has said himself it won't go further than flirting, then he is probably telling you the truth. He doesn't want to mislead you. I think R is the safer option but it is totally up to you
I hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): are you nuts!? you 15. date one, break-up, date the other break-up.. um, this pattern WILL repeat for several years with different guys... it's supposed too. stop focusing on these 2 knuckleheads
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reader, Emmiie +, writes (2 March 2011):
Hey, I think your friends are right, R sounds much better for you, if P wont take it any further, I dont think he will want a proper relationship. My opinion is for you to figure out what YOU want. Plus, you have known R for longer. I have also been through something like this recently, and i waited, and now i regret it, because the boy i wanted to choose, got tired of waiting. So my advice is to ask yourself whether you want a serious relationship.
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