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writes:i need some serious help here guys... so ive been with this guy for almost 2 yrs now but he's controlling and he's not that nice to me... but he treats me good too so i don't know. but then i was talking to this other kid and he makes me happy but we're just friends... but i'm starting to like him. however me and my "bf" having problems he's told me i'm not who he wants but basically that i'll do. we argue all the time... it's ridiculous but i love him but i don't know what to do. everyone keeps tellin me to break up but i don't know if we already are separated or not. i think i finally ended but i don't know. what shuld i do, i feel like i'm torn between the two. an a_____ and a sweet guy. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): develop something with the good guy. he seems to be there as a friend for you and is giving you your space to make your decision. it seems that he likes you to me, so reward him for it and you'll both be better off. get rid of that nasty guy who you are "with" now, there are way too many types like that in the world.good luck xx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 Go for the one that can give you happiness and not pain.
If someone gives you pain and heartaches and argue often , then he is not the one for you.
It is very simple, just walk away from pain and embrace happiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): Why are you still with this nasty bf of yours Get rid and get yourself someone who wants to be with you 100% of the time. Dont be with a pig who says 'that you will do'. wake up and walk.
take care
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 That has got to be the worst thing to say to his girlfriend. "You are not the one that I want, but you will do". OMG words fail me, he is using you as a stop gap until someone else comes along. I think you kinda know the answer yourself the question and that is kick this manipulating, selfish and undeserving creature to the kerb FAST.
I would have this other guy who shows you respect as a friend for now and then see what happens. He seems to be more boyfriend material than your current one. Good Luck Hun, Dusky xxx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): This is really unfair on you honey, no person should ever just be with you 'because you'll do'. It's completely disrespectful and mean, so honey, this isn't worth staying with him. My advice to you would be to finish it with your boyfriend, once and for all, show him who's boss, and that girls can have control and are not just there to be used! You be with who makes you happy, because I'll tell you this, you deserve way more than you're getting at the moment. Good luck with everything :]
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