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writes:I feel like this is a ridiculous question to ask but I really don't know how to go about my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and everything has been great. He treats me very well and I'm very happy. Our sex life is incredible but I'm looking to switch things up a little bit and try something a little different. I've always been completely shaved down there for years and I'm a little interested in letting it grow in a bit. I'm not looking to have a full blow forest but I think it would be sexy if I had a little bit going on down there. Problem is I don't know how to approach my boyfriend on this situation since I know he loves me shaved and the shaved look. I know he won't dump me over it but I don't want him to be turned off by it and have it change our sex life. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone so much for your responses. I'm gonna let it grow in a little at a time and see how he responds. THANX!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): Landing strip, or you could do what my girlfriend does and create a stencil of his initials and shave around that.
I still think it's the coolest thing ever that she has my initials shaved onto her pubes.
Whats to discuss? he surely wont mind as long as you keep whatever you do trimmed short and it doesn't get in the way fo the fun bits.
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reader, Honest Answer +, writes (15 April 2010):
 Let it grow a bit, without cluing him in on what you are doing. Judge his reaction. And then decide.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): i don't think it'd make much difference tbh.
it's like a hair cut on the top of your head isn't it.. he shouldn't end it if you had your hair done the way you wanted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): try a landing strip. you know, the little strip of hair going right up the middle and shaved on either side. I usually shave, but when I do this my boyfriend goes nuts! He loves it! He says he likes shaved, but it can feel like he's a phedphile sometimes! lol So its sort of a compromise for us.
P.S. I talked my boyfriend into taming his jungle down there by shaving. That was over 2 years ago and he still shaves. He says it makes his junk look bigger. I love it because its much more pleasant to give him oral, and it makes the contact during sex way better! Ask him if you can shave him, even a little, then show him how awesome it is by giving him oral.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 To be honest with you, if you've been with him that long, you should be able to ask him anything and tell him almost anything. You have sex with him and that's the most intimate you can get, so I don't see why you can't just say something like "hey, what would you think if I..."
Give it a go...you'll at least have a laugh :)
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reader, shaniii08 +, writes (15 April 2010):
 well i just started dating a new guy a few weeks ago and we were a week together before we had sex but the day before we did i got a brazillian, and normally after i get that done i let it grow for 3 weeks so it wont hurt as much and he has seen it both hair and no hair and he wasnt creeped out by it at all, maybe you could use that as an excuse if you dont want to confront him and ask his opinion on hair?
god luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): It would be a major overreaction if a guy dumped you over something like this. I think you'd better just have a talk to him about it. He not care one way or the other. What I mean is, he might change his mind and say that he wants you to make this decision for yourself.
I hope this answer helps.
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