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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This woman that I love and have been loving all year is bi-sexual and has a girlfriend. This is the first time I've ever felt this strong for someone. I think about her all the time and put her before I do myself. It's crazy. If something was to go south I don't know what I would do. (But I'm not dating hern we're just best friends in the entire world.)I've been trying to wait it out for her and her girlfriend to break up with each other but starting to loose hope in it. I keep telling myself that I'll only give it one (1) more week and then I'm calling it quits, What gets me is when I find something out that they did together like taking a shower together. When I hear stuff like that it's like my heart explodes. After that, she always makes me feel better by doing something even though she thinks that what she said didn't bother me at all, but that's only what she thinks. It's like right now I'm thinking only about her and nothing else. Am I just waiting for a lost cause or barking up the wrong tree? What should I do about this situation? Any help would be so so much appreciated. Thanks.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 The question got posted twice, here's the link to the other one with a few answers:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-gf-is-bi-sexual-and-she-has.html
(just so people can see what others have responded already etc.)
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reader, Gleek4Life  +, writes (20 February 2011):
From what you describe this girl is unaware that you like her. She seems to have a pretty solid relationship with her gf and I think that you're best just to try get over her and move on. Unless you tell her you have feelings for her, which she might recipricate, but she might not and that may have an impact on your friendship.
As someone who has been head over heels for a friend for 3 years (whose has the same gf for all that time), may I just say do not waste your time like I have. I'd get some distance from her and try to find someone else.
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