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female
age
41-50,
*oraatuha
writes:Am pregnant...thats great news ....and am happy about thatbecause i have always asked God to give me something that is truly mine....So hopefully by december my baby comes alongAm scared...bacuse right after knowing am pregnant, i got a job and am now sacred to tell them that in four months i will be needing time off..Remember i had spent 4 good years without a job...so, though it wasnt well paying, atleast it can pay my rent and foodMy boyfriend is supportive and he loves me very much but i think his also a baby too...Because i know that his trying but his not cut out for this...He hated resposibility....but it some how is following him...Thats another reason i am scaredAm scared that he will not love my child as much as his daughter...he has a daughter he loves so much, but does not love the motherAm worrried, that when the baby finally comes along, i wont be able to afford providing for himAm scared am losing myself, because i dont have much emotional and financial support from any one.....my bf thinks his there for me...but he makes the dumpest decisons,...he actually doesnt have an idea on what to do...but his tryingAm scared..that my usual mean father ...with his money....wont help me out and that he actually doesnt care about us....Am scared that my family will add the salt in, by telling me they told me so,,,,about getting involved with this guy...am scared that i might never find a good job, even when am an engineerand dont say these are pregnancy emotions...because its the reality
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (15 July 2013):
 Sit down with your BF - make a budget and learn to stick to it. The sooner the better. Get into some good habits before the baby is here.
Can you go on maternity leave? Or will you be let go? And yes, you should talk to your boss, she/he might be a lot more understanding then you think.
Put away money, as much as you can.
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