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writes: I was seeing my ex for 6 months, then one day I seen him at a bar with another girl. I could see him clear as day. I didn't want to interrupt anything so I called him and I seen him reject my call. I called once again and I seen him reject again, so as I walked over this girl he was talking to went for me. I was attacked, then thrown out of the bar.He called every day and text constantly even though I would not answer the calls. He never gave up. He would turn up at clubs that I was at and try and talk to me. He always intimated he was a jealous guy and when I was out with frieds I seen him, but ignored him. He called me all the names under the sun and soon got his friends involved too. Then as soon as he calmed down it was all the sorries. He is a very Jekyl and Hyde character.My brother soon heard what he was doing to me and my friends and asked him to leave me alone. He said he was sorry and that he still loved me but was a very jealous guy. Since then I have not heard from him since.It's been three months since we split. Please don't think I have been strong through all this. I have pined for him every day, when he text to tell me he was missing me and wanted to tell him I felt the same. I am a very forgiving person, I always seem to forget the bad stuff in a person and always see the good. I knew if I talked to him I would have fell for him again. I would easily in a minute try to get him back but my friends or family no longer like him and I can't forget him rejecting the calls. I'm still very much in love with him. I just can't seem to get my ex out my head. Is this normal?
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reader, kitty83 +, writes (13 April 2006):
kitty83 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you very much for your replys. I was getting along fine and excepting it was over then all of a sudden i couldnt stop thinking about how much im still in love with him.
Its tough as i cant really talk to family and friends as they just say "get over him" and i know i should but there is still something there niggling.
I dont think he would talk to me now that my brother had to get involved. I feel im in love with some one that i will never get to be with.
Once again thank you very much for your replys, i will take both advice on board!!
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (13 April 2006):
 Hi Kitty!
Only three months? It took me ages to get over my ex but the question you need to ask yourself is "is he worth it?" Does he deserve another chance. Well done to you for only seeing the good in people but sometimes seeing the bad can help decide.
Maybe you could write out a list of the good and bad things about him. You'll probably find that there are more bad things than good. You know how much he can hurt you. But you know how good he can make you feel inside. But will he really be that good to you if he could so willingly talk to that other girl in the bar and reject your calls?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2006): Ofcourse its normal. I still can't get my ex out of my head and its been 4 months! My friend still talks about her ex and it's been a year! Different relationships take different times to get over. But I think that maybe you can't move on because you never spoke after that bar incident. Did u let him explain? U should. Even though your family doesn't approve I think you should follow your intuition, but don't confuse your intuition with your heart. I think you should talk to him and talk things out because obviously you need closure.But if you know you should NOT get back with him then REEAALLY try not to hook up again. Good luck! =)
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