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writes:I've already ask a whole bunch of questions on this subject but i got an other one. As a recap i like my friend thats 1Yr older than me. she has a boyfriend. we've gotten real close. the other day she gave me kiss on the cheek. since then she's all i can think about and now i really really like her. but today i saw how close she really is wit her bf. needless to say i felt really bad after i thought i had A Real shot. now i feel like bak to square one do i need 2 do someting or wait or leaVe
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): Right... This is quite a difficult situation to be in, and I'm not sure I'll be a lot of help, but I'll do my best.
It sounds to me a bit like she's leading you on, because she likes you, but she also likes her boyfriend. This could either be because she genuinely likes you both, or just enjoys the attention from guys. As I don't know her, I can't really say which one this will be. I don't blame you for feeling bad after you saw her with her boyfriend, and you might be back to square one, like you said.
In my opinion, I think you should pluck up the courage to go and talk to her for a bit, and then gradually get onto the subject of her boyfriend. If she seems totally happy with him, then don't let her know you like her. Maybe you could tease her, and tempt her away from him (as bad as this sounds) but don't make her do anything she'll regret. If everything ends awfully with her boyfriend because he found you kissed her or something, she won't thank you. I can guarentee.
So for now, leave it a bit. Avoid her for a few days, and then don't blurt out you like her. Tease her, show her what she's missing. This could work out quite well for you in the long run.
Good luck :]
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