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writes:Hello. I have a pondering yet mentally challenging question for me. I've had a pretty healthy sex life up to about last August when my ex broke up with me. Ive gotten over the past and the pain of the break up over time. At my job there is a girl (virgin) that im interested in and have been interested in for a while now. She was the first one to talk to me when i first started the job. Weve been really good friends and getting closer and closer over the months. Shes almost 18 and im 18 this november. Shes moving to Europe for a year to stay with her older brother on base in italy. Meanwhile i will be graduating and heading to the Marines (hoorah!). Therefore she has been pretty active on giving clues she sexually curious, meanwhile I for one am slowly declining im my emotional output, im guessing no sex at all only masturbation and even thats no turn on anymore. So my question is, Am i heading for mental or emotional damage if i soon dont find some kind of intimate satifaction?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): Of course not..masturbating is not unhealthy!
In a limit always...ahhahaha
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reader, D-M  +, writes (3 May 2008):
What I think you are saying is that your sex drive is not as it usually was... everything in life has cycles. If this is the case, the only damage you'll occur is that from the marines training. Is this the case?
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reader, cp5lb +, writes (3 May 2008):
Two scenario's: 1. You aren't interested in her. You are interested in her virginity. (By the way, virginity and admitted virginity are 2 very different things)
2. You are in love with her.
I'm guessing number 2 since you bothered to write about it.
But the real truth is that it doesn't matter. You are 18 and what you think you want now will make you laugh 10 years from now.
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