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writes: I used to hang round with a guy through whom I met a girl. We got to be very close mates. Her boyfriend and mine were mates and I decided to introduce her to everybody I knew, invite her into the crowd, you know how it is. Anyway she has now started going to my local with my friends without inviting me. Not only does that annoy me but my boyfriend is in Germany in the army with hers (they have recently finished) and she texts, phones and is constantly in touch with my boyfriend. She never told me she split up with her boyf, or that she passed her driving test recently. In fact at the moment I am in Spain and she has not been in touch once, yet manages to be in touch with my bf every day. Am I wrong to be annoyed?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2005): You have every right to be pissed at her and i would be too. In this situation i wouldn't suggest talking to her because i don't think she's doing this harmlessly. I would talk to my boyfriend and tell him what she is doing (because guys don't catch on to that stuff) and ask him to stop contact with her.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (18 July 2005):
No you are not wrong to be annoyed!
This girl has taken advantage of your kindness.
Tell her to stop phoning and texting your boyfriend NOW.
If she continues, I would ask him to change his number (he shouldnt be texting her anyway).
This girl is not a true friend.
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