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female
age
36-40,
*airygurl
writes:im absolutely torn between 2 guys...i was going out with a guy for 4 years and broke up recentely.now im going out with a guy ive known for years...my ex keeps asking me o get back with him and im not sure if i want to get back, bt things are gettin bad with this other guy now and im comparing them in my mind there flaws and stuff....i feel really bad... i asked my boyfriend at the moment for space cause my ex was at me and he said ok he'd give me some time alone but he said my ex is not goin 2 leave me alone. please help.i dont know who i want!!!!!!
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reader, PinkPoddle  +, writes (16 December 2007):
 Sounds like the guy who you are with now, can see that you are confused and don't know which to be with. So thats probly the reason why things are getting bad between you two. Because you are unsure, and he feels like you should know....otherwise why waste his time. He cares about you no doubt but feels a little like he's going to get left out. You will always have feelings for your ex. Especially because it was a two year relationship. But if you broke it off there must have been good reason, its you choice if you want to take a chance again with him. But theres a good possibility that things aren't going to be any better than the two years you had with him to improve. In the end, if your not sure....then you should do anything. You shouldn't make any quick decisions or you will be in an even bigger mess. Take some time to yourself and figure out what you need for yourself.
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (16 December 2007):
 You broke up with your ex for a reason, but now he's ruining your current relationship.
You have to ask your ex to leave you alone for a while, you need time to think with a clear head. If he respects you and is willing to do anything to get you back, he will leave you alone. Otherwise you wikll never be able to make a rational decision.
Have you considered the thought that maybe neither of the guys are for you? If you don't know who you want, perhaps neither.
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