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There just isn't the same spark as there was before our breakup! WHY?

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Question - (3 April 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2006)
A , *abstar44 writes:

I have recently got back together with my ex. We were together 2 1/2 yrs but then seperated when I went to work abroad. Weve been back together 5 months and although I love him so much there doesnt seem to be that spark there anymore!!!...Is this just normal as we know eachother so well or this a bad sign???

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2006):

Hi, well maybe their isn't the same spark because she could be afraid to commit to you incase you leave her again? Or maybe it is just one of those things, just the way it goes. You know, the love was passionate at that point and you threw it away, and now it will never be the same kind of thing. It happens but you two can overcome it by talking, and having a real heart to heart. Is she aware that this is how you feel? Make sure she knows and then ask her how she feels and make sure she's totally honest.

Mel

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2006):

you wouldn't believe this but i'm goign through the same thing and i think i've decided to split up with her after 3 years... it's so hard but i can't make love to someone that i feel is like family...

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