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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years, it will be 2 years on the 30th of this month. At the start of our relationship we saw each other all the time, every weekend and some times a couple of days in the week too. That lasted for about a year and a half but then I went to university 4 hours away, and he also started working every other weekend, so we could only see each other every other weekend.At first it was ok because we talked a lot on the phone and on the internet, but recently he has stopped calling me, I probably talk to him for about 5 minutes a day, some times more, but still not as much as we used to.I feel like he is not that interested in me any more. I have to admit that I have been feeling a bit distant from him too, it feels like we have grown apart, and I feel quite attracted to one of my new male friends at university.I love my boyfriend a lot and I don't really want our relationship to end because he is my best friend and I feel so comfortable with him.We have planned to move in together in my second year of university and I have a house sorted, ready to move in to in september, he said he wants to move in with me, but should we go through with it if things seem to be going down hill right now? or will moving in together renew our relationship? Any advice would be great Im feeling really confused.
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reader, Anti-Cheese  +, writes (20 January 2009):
Hey i know where your coming from. I think you should move in together whats the worse that could happen you move in together and you could light up things in your relationship if it doesnt work out then you can leave the house and move on. just my opinion
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