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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My Boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years now and have been living together for 4 years! I went to go and stay with him while i was still im matric! For a few weeks now I have been Having doubts about our relationship, I'm only 20 and he is 29 I feel that I'm too yong for this and all my friends are going out and having a good time and I have to answer to someone everytime I want to go out somewhere! I do not know what to do, the spark is gone between us! I feel so guilty by having these toughts but I can't Help it, should I not be happy to? But I do not want to brake his hart....
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): you age says 22-25. But you said you're 20. If you feel trapped, you need to leave. You need to live life now, you won't be able to after you have a kid, get married, etc.
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reader, 2old4this  +, writes (5 February 2008):
 You know what, for about the next 4 to 7 years you are gonna be thinking like this. You are right, you are probably too young to be tied down at this point. And He is just at a way different point in his life then you are and frankly he should have expected this. when you are 25 and he is 34, it wont matter that much. But right now at the point in life that you are, it matters alot. So dont feel guilty. Tell him the truth. It will be hard but it has to be done if you know there is no other path to take.
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