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writes: I have been friends with a guy for 3 years. He is 10 years younger than I am. He gives me all of the signals that he is attracted to me and I am extremely attracted to him as well. I realized a year ago that I am in love with him. We never had any physical contact until a year ago when we started to hug each other here and there. At first, I hugged him a couple of times. The last few times, he has initiated it. However, I wonder if he is intimidated by the fact that I am older. I can sense that he really cares for me. When we see each other, we talk for a long time and we make each other laugh. I feel so happy when I am with him. My feelings are so overwhelming at times, but I keep them at bay because I don't want him to feel uncomfortable. I have been told by many people that the man has to make the first move because it is their instinct. I am just wondering if it would be wrong of me to make a move and if not, what should the move be? How long should I wait for him to make the move? Reply to this Question
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reader, becky05 +, writes (2 July 2005):
Sounds to me like if he hasnt made a move by now, he just sees you as a really good friend. maybe in the future, this will change, but for now i would keep things the way they are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2005): hi hun well,firstly if you like him then theres no stopping you making the first move because he could be worried about making the first move because not all men are confident.If you feel the time is right to do something about it then go for it but make sure its right!.To me it seems as if you to do reallyt like each other but are to scared to do anything about it.Your waiting for him to make the move but he could be thinking the same thing about you.If you want to do it then go for it.You never know it could lead things further :) luv franxx
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