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writes:The man I am in love with has just moved to Amercia and I'm totally lost. We have spent the last 3months together - nearly everyday but at least talking/texting everyday and it has been a great time but now he has moved away (probably for good) and I don't know what to do without him.I knew he was planning on leaving but hoped that we got on so well that in the future we could be together (he didn't want a long distance thing) - he tells me he loves me and he's texted me since he's left telling me he misses me (I told him I missed him first) - I just want to be with him.We spoke about me going over to visit in August (19 weeks away)and looked at some flights but nothing has been booked yet.How can I get through this???
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): Hi - my boyfriend moved 10,000 miles away nearly a year ago to the day. We were and are very much in love but I can honestly say this has been so hard. We met once during the last year - just for a week - half way. We have nearly split so many times. It gets hard to keep things going over the phone and texts. Trust gets harder too although it can be maintained. The goal has always been that I will move out to be with him. Having a goal makes a difference so if you can book something sooner the better - keeps you both focused. Also - it will give you a fresh perspective on your relationship. In the meantime send small but thoughtful gifts, use Skype (with camera) if you can, write letters and emails. It can work if you both share the same dreams but its one of those things that may evolve and change. 5 months is quite a long time - if that is the earliest you can make it then go for it but book it soon. Plan how you will spend that time. I wish you luck - it is such a difficult process I will not hide the fact.
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reader, sumera  +, writes (2 April 2008):
that must b very hard for u to go through this..if i was u i probablhhy wud be spening mhy time in my memorys n trying to have the day go by n keeping bz...ifhe says he loves u then girl why r u waiting for aug surprise him soon n u wud noe the truth n u can make a better decision...n remeber love alwayys comes with pain n tears especially with us girls
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