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writes:I find myself really fantasizing about giving my gf a MMF as of lately. We have discussed it as a fantasy and at times she says she wants one too, although she wants a MFF as much as a MMF if not more. However, we watch porn together and she is openly amazed at the sight of a black penis. She has said that if she were to try a MMF she would like it with a black male. But then we talk about the possible fall out and ultimately agree we don't want to open pandora's box and risk our relationship.With that being said, if we ever were to be spontaneous I think I could do a MMF, but I think I would want limitations going into it. For example, is it fair of me to just be willing to watch her go down on a guy, not having sex with him? The thought of her sucking another man's cock is hot to me, the idea of him pounding the shit out of her...not so hot. The idea of her getting a facial or swallowing his load...HOT!Anyhow, morals aside, is this something worth pursuing if I am only willing to go part of the way? or is it an all or nothing deal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010): If the fantasy excites you. You should leave it at that. You are making the suggestions and talking her into doing things with other men. You will regret it later x
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reader, reacher  +, writes (14 January 2010):
 dooood, your girlfriend is already giving signs that she will cheat on you. The fact she fantasises specifacly on different raced person, means she is curiouse..but the fact that you even consider letting another man touch your women..i think you need to spice up your sex life between you 2 first, go to a sex therapist or something..
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (14 January 2010):
 Sounds like a good way to end the relationship to me.
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reader, Ask_Pol  +, writes (13 January 2010):
 If you decide to go ahead with the threesome its ideal to have discuss the do's and don'ts with your gf before you even start thinking about actually doing it. For example you can only perform oral on the 3rd person and the 3rd person can only perform oral in return.
Set down the ground rules and make sure that you all agree on them and maybe even have a code word that means things stop if you get uncomfortable with the situation.
Hope that helps.
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