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*kypie
writes:I'm a 15 year old bi guy. There's this guy I have a crush on and he has a crush on me too. I'm just not sure whether to go for it or not. He's slightly older, really smart and a Rugby player as well as really good looking.When he was at school with me he used to be a bit of a bully towards me, he is 3 years older than me and used to taunt me or just be rude and make fun of me, and ask people not to be friends with me. Also he used to be a whore, he has no idea how many guys he has slept with in his life but admits he sometimes did 5 a week.So he's a pretty bad guy right? Well, no. About a year ago, he started seeking forgiveness from me for the bullying. He says he feels really guilty, and has been trying to make it up ever since. He buys me expensive gifts and offers to take me to places or pay for stuff. He's also not really a whore anymore, he was seeing a guy going steady for a few months. What's more instead of cheating, he eventually broke up with the guy saying it was unfair on the other guy because actually his heart was with someone else (me).Now he's asked me outright if I want to be his BF and I just don't know what to go for, any advice?
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reader, Lies  +, writes (7 October 2012):
Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes. But do prepare yourself mentally and physically if he DOES break you. Otherwise, I think its great even if you guys are 3 years apart.
The reason I disagree with the other people below me is due to the way they look at things. Sure he WAS a bully, but people change and since he is so sincere why not. You do like him and vice versa. Don't see the reason not to.
I may have been a bit too late tho... :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2012): If he's sincere on asking you for a date...then why not?? :)
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reader, Skypie +, writes (11 September 2012):
Skypie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat do you mean by "he sounds like a flake" ?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (11 September 2012):
 I would stay far far away from him. IT could be he was bullying you because he had feelings for you back then, but that is NO excuse.
He sounds like a flake too.
Nope, wouldn't date him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2012): Run like hell and never look back. What on earth are you thinking?
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