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male
age
26-29,
*esus of Suburbia
writes: Hi. I'm a 15 year old boy, and I have a serious problem. There's this girl i've liked for a while. She, unfortunetly, ignores me. I try talking to me, but pretends not to notice me. What's even worse, is that she flirts like crazy with my best friends. Both of them, not just one. I'm not sure what I should do. I've done everything I could to get her to even realize i'm alive, but she doesn't notice. I've tried letting go, but I can't. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): Hi! First off, im 15 also and idk if this will be any help, but I'll try
She may be uninterested in you and at that point you would need to let go, but she could also like you and be flirting with your friends to make you jealous. Some girls -if not most- are to shy to tell a guy that they like him, so they try to make him tell them first.
I'd suggest just asking her out or telling her how you feel. The worst she could do is say no, but she could also say yes and things would work out for the both of you.
Ik its hard to tell someone that but you should give it a shot anyway.
Best of luck!!!
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reader, QZ +, writes (28 June 2010):
I know it's hard to let go of someone you like a lot who doesn't like you back, but sometimes that's what you have to do. If she's uninterested, would you really want to date someone who didn't share the feelings for you you have for them? And think of it this way: if she's not the one for you, that means that perfect girl is out there somewhere... You just haven't found her yet. Be patient, and you'll find someone worth being with who cares just as much for you as you do for them. (:
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