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51-59,
*obertEvans
writes:I have been dating this girl for almost four months. She told me of an eating disorder she had in the past. Recently she lost her job an had to move home and she said she is going back to her counselor that helped her for her eating disorder. She says she needs time to get her life straight and get help and wants to date me when this is all through. She doesn't want to date me now though. I love her and told her I would be there for her and help and support her. I haven't seen her in over two weeks and when I asked to make plans she said no. What should I do? She keeps texting me!! If I ignore her she seems to get upset an says guess your ignoring me. I want her to miss me and want to see me but if she needs time then should I not text back and just say I was busy or should I tell her what i was doing also?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): As someone that suffered from an eating disorder in the past your best to give her as much space as she needs. Dont keep texting her as we are obcessive, if she's getting over her food obcession its likely that she is projecting her needs on to you, she knows that she cant be with you as she has to much to sort out but at the same time she needs something theres to hold on to, to make her feel good. Give her time, dont text her for a few weeks and then just text her ask her how shes getting on and let her know you have been thinking of her. If its meant to be it will all work out!:)
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