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writes:I just need a bit of advice about my ex boyfriend.My ex boyfriend and i have been broken up since june 07 after 6 years together and a 3 yr old child together . since then we both have had relationships with other people, and my feelings have changed over the course of the months, i'm not in love with him and i think he's not in love with me . we now are both single and as christmas is approaching , my ex has asked me if he can stay over on christmas eve and has also asked me to go christmas shopping to get our son's presents. i have already gone and bought presents for my son on my own. i really don't know what to think about all of this. i know he doesn't want us to get back together, as he has told me so but he still wants us to sleep together (he just says its sex and nothing else) and has constantly rung me or texted me since we have broken up. i haven't contacted him at all since the break up , he has done all the running.I don't know what to do, i want to be fair to our son by letting him have both parents on christmas day .
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reader, Franci  +, writes (26 November 2007):
It Is easy!!Take him out for a hot chocolate, when you both are talking look in to his eyes and tell him,talk to him about it!!Tell him that you don't want to have sex with him.And you both should work together to make the separation less painful as you can for you son, such as having the chritmas day together and if what ever will be will be!!!Let nature take it' course
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reader, muffy  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Well, dont have sex with him. Save yourself. If he doesnt wanna get back together then why would he wanna have sex with you? Be with him and your son on Christmas and be nice, but dont screw him. He would just be using you.i hope i helpedlove and kisses
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