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The effects of anal sex?

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Question - (15 July 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2011)
A female Malawi age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im really curious about the effects of anal sex. The anus was designed to expel waste so if used for sex cant it affect the muscles?like maybe you can fail to hold your faeces? Im curious about anal and would love to try it but im scared it might ruin the tightness of the anus. And also is it possible for some faeces to come out during this type of sex? Thank you...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2011):

Anal sex is really great if done correctly.

It will not affect the muscles, make you unable to hold your faces, etc. The movement of the colon in fact is helpful.

Faces can come out if you are full when you try it. So, don't be... If you are really that concerned about this you can give yourself an enema (clean the bowel) first. I've never needed to do that though and it's usually only done be people that do ass to mouth (which is NOT my cup of tea).

Start with a finger or two first and see how you go. Or try a small butt plug or anal beads. Stimulate yourself digitally or using a bullet vibe. Get yourself used to being anally stimulated and then progress from there.

It's mostly a mind game, so once you train yourself to get over that part of it and just relax, your man will be able to go all the way and pump you there just as he would vaginally. And that will be an amazing feeling for you.

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