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writes: hello,i could really do with some help with this if you have a few spare muinites. me and my girl freind have been going out for 6 months, we broke up for a bit and got back togetter. my girlfreind is having a boy over her house, a freind of hers, but i feel really uneasy about it, because this boy is alot more attractive than me, and they flirt quite abit. im not sure what to do, because if i talk to her she will get annoyed and go on about me not trusting her, and it will all end in tears. i no nothing likly is to happen, but if it did i swear i would smash this boys face in, and that would make things worse. im really not sure what to do.if u have time plz help!
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (8 April 2006):
if this situation of this guy going over your gf houses is making you feel uncomfortable then speak to her, tell her you its making you feel. i'm sure if you explained the fact he's around her house is making you feel insecure. just speak to your girlfriend
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reader, sexseahot +, writes (6 April 2006):
If you are uncomfortable with this situation, why don't you join both of them while they're at her house. If there's nothing to be hidin' then there shouldn't be a problem with having you around. I would probably feel as you do about this situation. I don't think it's right that they flirt though, that's very uncalled for if there isn't any attraction there.
Just put yourself in the picture most of the time they are together and see how they act towards eachother and if their uneasy about you being around. Maybe nothing will ever happen, maybe it will. You never know. But if she really loved you, she would respect your feelings and do what pleases you.
Good Luck!
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