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writes:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-newly-single-should-i-wait-in-case.htmlThis is a question based on my decision after the above mentioned query.The new girl I'm having a crush on, is just too gorgeous.Now we live in an office environment. There are people who know her and me both pretty well. So I've come to hear from one person, who is actually our leader (since we're working on one project) but is also my good friend for years. He warned me about the girl saying she is of a category who can take advantage of her beauty to make the boys dance on her toes.And to mention that again, i've found her really really gorgeous. To add to that, i've also felt her down to earth. Both of her attracted me like an electromagnet attracts a nutbolt.She's good friends with me. We text chat a lot. We chat a lot online too. She initiates many a times.Also, I'm not one of the impressive type of guys. I don't have a good sense of humor. Average build. I'm sort of a nerd or rather a geek. I was an introvert for most of the time in my life. Some things, have gradually changed me.How do i approach her. Its not like I'm excited. I want to go through this very smoothly.Hoping for guidance. :)Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2011): Ok. Well you sound like a nice guy so you have that going for you. Don't get any advice from any guy who seems like he plays the jerk to get women. What they do is make the girl feel bad about themselves so they get it into their head that they have to be with them to feel like they have any type of worth. You don't want to go this route, it's morally wrong and the girl will eventually realize what you've be doing. A good starting point is not belittling yourself. You are impressive. Think of it this way; no matter what, if there is something you don't like about yourself, you can change it. Key thing is IF YOU DON'T LIKE SOMETHING ABOUT YOURSELF, NOT if SHE doesn't like something about you. Start by realizing how awesome you are. This will boost your confidence, which will translate to a change in subtle body language, which is how girls get you stuck in their heads. Congratulations on realizing that you shouldn't rush into anything, that's where a lot of guys go wrong and get adverse effects. the greatest and most enjoyable relationships start out with as a friendship first. Again, start with realizing how great of a person you are and some things will open up after that. Best of luck and be awesome.
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reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (10 September 2011):
 Ask her out for lunch.
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