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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:to anyone who hasn't been in this situation, it can seem weird, but i wanted to write an article for those people who have been in a relationship while they were young, with someone who has kids.when you get asked out by someone you've had a crush on for ages, it's a thrill. in my case i never imagined it could come true, i was 15 and he was 23, of course i said yes.he had 2 great kids who were only 2/3 so meeting them for the first time wasn't to hard, all i had to do to make a good impression was smile and agree to push them on the swings, thank god.but fitting in a relationship around these kids was hard, and led to all sorts of arguements between him and ex, who tried to cause friction, as ex's have the habit of doing.anyway the point i'm getting at is spending time with another person and their kids can be difficult, looking after them can be hard, but it takes a lot to be a step parent, especially when your barely grown up yourself.in the end we split up, because of our age, not the kids.
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