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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hello.I know this might sound stupid and unbelievable since i'm so young.. but i'm completely head over heals in love with my best friend. so i've known him for about two years now.. and about a year and a half of it, i've had hidden feelings for him. i've tried once to get over him; but it didn't happen. he's the most amazing person i know, and probably will ever meet.when i'm with him, my fears go out the window. i can't think about anything else when i'm around him.. recently, one of my other close friends met him and after we left him, she explained to me how giddy and happy i was around him. and how i laughed the whole time.so, all of this doesn't really seem like an issue, right? well here's the problem, he doens't know i like him that way, he thinks of me as a sister, if i told him about my feelings, it could ruin our friendship, i doubt he likes me.soo. i don't know what to do at this point.. i love him more than i love myself and i know i'll always love him. i actually have dreams of starting a family with him. help?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): my friend is great mates with her ex but the thing with her is she starts to fancy him again she asks him out he says yes and then something happens to them that breaks them up again. they have managed to stay friends for years even after breaking up with him. if you are great friends it should be easy to ask him whether he likes you n the same way or not. its unlikely that he wont want to be your friend when you tell him as your friends already. go for it, what have you got to lose?!
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