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writes: my husbands a photographer in his spare time. We've been married 18 years, I've always helped him when he's taken photos. Then I found a message on the answer machine. He'd asked someone if they still wanted thier photo taken the day he knew I was going to be out. He knew she wanted them in skimpy underwear. A big row later & the photos didn't get taken. The row was because he was going to take them with out anyone or me being present or nearby.He told me last week he was going to be taking someone's photos this weekend for a magazine that was going to do a story on her. I said I would help him. He said no, he could manage, it was only a few photos. He's come home and gone upstairs to look at them. I've found out that the storeys about her boob enlargment. What's on the photos I don't know. I feel very hurt and upset. Why's he started doing this to me, he doesn't seem to care about my feelings. Should i forget this or should it be guns at dawn?
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, fran, writes (7 February 2005): in some cases you have to go with your feelings. most people have a gut feeling their partners are messing about! if you're not confident about the way you look that could be why you don't like him looking at this other woman. if the sex is still regular and you still get a hug now and then then im sure there's nothing in it.you might have to talk about it to him though, else it will eat you up inside and eventually ruin your relationship.
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