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Suddenly developed feelings for a close friend, never ever felt attracted to her before for the 1+ year I've known her for !!

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Question - (3 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

something really weird has happened. i became friends with this girl for just over a year ago. we went to different colleges yet still we started speaking quite alot. i never ever even thought about liking her. i didnt like her in anything more than a friend, i didnt find her attractive, nor did she. we both used to tell each other every problem including our current relationships etc. and got extremely close. now we are at university, a few hours away from each other. we talk everyday on the phone and she admits she tells me everything and i am the closest to her.

n jus recently i feel as if ive begun to like her. its really weird coz i would never of thought of that happening!!!

she wants me to come see her uni, so im going to stay a few days round hers during xmas time.

ive heard girls dont switch a friend to a boyfriend. is it to late to maybe to see what she feels about me??

also she isnt the type to freak out and run a mile, shes really nice and we're so close if she said no she would laugh it off and give me a hug...but still its a little risk if u get what i mean.

i would be ever so grateful if anybody could help me please. thank u so much!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008):

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hmm ur right. when i am in her company i will be able to tell what she kind of feels. maybe a few drinks will also help the situation :)

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