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female
age
30-35,
*ilzDon'tKnow
writes: Ok, well of course there is a guy i like, whose girlfriend is leaving him. Now he doesn't want to say it but he'll be crushed. And he's been flirting with me ever sense he heard she was leaving. And i REEEEEALLY like him. But my best friend has known i've liked him since the first day i met him. And she has cheated on almost every boyfriend she's ever had. Now my best friend wants me to "hook her up" with my friend and i said no. Well she's gonna keep bugging. Now how do i flirt with my friend while still keeping my best friend from my crush.
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reader, staceyxxx +, writes (13 November 2008):
i have been thought this before,
me and my friend were together all the time she was truly the best friend i have ever had we were 14, well my brother had a friend that i really liked so we was talking for about a week on the phone then we agred to meet up, i took my friend and cusin with me, well i asked him out but my friend decided she wanted to be with him aswell i was in shock i just couldnt belive she was doin this to me, well my cusin had no choice but to say to the boy can you chose who you want.
i knew no matter what happend we were sure to stop being friends, the boy chose me that bight i stayed over my friends house and when i was asleep he was cryin, but i was told she didnt like him she just wanted to see who could get him first.
me and my friend have stop talkin for a long while i am now 18 and have been in a relationship with that same boy for 4 years now best thing ever:), but i miss my friend very much and some times i wonder did do the right thing.
what you have to do is think who would you rather risk losing its hard at first but what ever decistion you make it will turn out fine and always remember that you only get 1 chance ;)
hope i help :)
good luck
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