| A
female
,
*TALiANxTHiKNESz
writes: Dear Cupid, I need lots of help. See i`ve been dating this boy named "Nick" for 3 months now. But what i cant understand is im like i think in love wit his best friend "Craig". Nick knows that i like his best friend, but thinks i like him more then his best friend. I talk to Craig more then i talk to Nick. I have weird dreams about Craig and i dont understand why. But what i really dont get is last week i hooked up with craig after nick went back to his unlces house. A part of me feels i cheated but then again he forced me to kiss him.i pushed him away evertime he tried to kiss me but he came right back.i really liked that i hooked up with him but nick doesnt know. I told craig not to tell nick or else i would never talk to him ever again. But what really gets me we talk on the phone all tha time and he told me he "loves me" and that he likes me alot. he did ask me out a couple of times when he knew i was going out with nick. I wanted to say yes because i liked him and he told me he would keep it on the "down low" and if nick got suspicous he would break it off. nick is one of the nice guys that wouldnt cheat or anything. lets just say hes faithful and he trusts me. craig on tha other hand is a player, he cant stick to one girl. What i dont get is me and craig talk everyday on the phone but when were in school hell walk down the hallway like im not even there! craig knows i like him and blows me off! we both see eachother in the hallway and no matter what mood im in i see craig for 2 secs a smile apears on my face and im not a mad, sad, confused, etc. as i though i was. we both look at eachother for like 5 secs and either me or him look away. We wont talk in school but were talk at home. Why wont craig talk to me in school? Is he afraid that someone might see ?? what i dont know what to do. i dont want to ask him why not b/c im nervous. Do you think Craig will tell nick ? Will nick get mad at me and break up with me if he finds out and if he does will he break up with me ?? ii need help please help me cupid thanks, `HELP ASAP` !!
View related questions:
best friend, player Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008): i know exacly what you are going through , and i can't bolieve how simular our storys are, Iv been dating someone for 3 month and i love him , but i can't get his best friend out of my head, we hooked up a cupple of times and we kissed. He told me he loves me and that he wouldnt care if he lost a friend. However my boyfriend found out , and let me tell you , i never knew how much i cared for him until the day we broke up . I couldnt bolieve that i had risked it all , for something i ddnt know would even work , thankfully were back together and i no longer talk to his best friend, and i think it is for the best , although times might be good with his best friend, there bound to be better with your boyfriend, and if you dont think they are , then you need to decide, Your boyfriend or his best friend , you can't have both, because you know it in your heart it isn't fair on nick. Can you emagine how crushed he would be , not just because you betrayed him , but his best friend, can you emagine if it was the other way around and it was him and your best friend, how crushed would you be, its hard , i know i have been there like i explained , but it's your choice listen to your heart , what ever man makes you happier , you should be with becasue it's not just their feelings you have to think about . It's your own aswel xxxxx GOOD LUCK HUNNY xxxx
A
reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2006): You said it yourself, Craig is a player! Stay away because what if you leave Nick but a month later Craig leaves you? Then you will have no one. Im pretty sure sooner or later Nick will find out, and it would be better if he heard it from you first rather than through Craig or someone else. If I were you, I would stay with Nick. But if you are not happy with him, then go and take a chance with Craig, but do not be surprised if in the end-you dont end up with either of them. Good Luck!!
...............................
|
