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writes:Dear Cupid... i am stuck between two crushes... the first guy is a jerk who is only nice when were alone i guess its coz hes got that cool image an his friends hate me but i can really open up to him an talk to him an he always tells me it will get better an to relax an he says he likes bugging me an when i ask why he says he just does =) the other guy is a good friend i chill with him alot an he makes me laugh an i like his hugs an he is totally into soccer but my best friend likes him too so that confuses things even more, he's great to hang out with an he is a good friend but i dont know if were ment to be more then friends an i also have to worry about my best friend coz she likes him too...i like them both an it seems like they both like me but im afraid of getting hurt an i hate choosing so i was hoping for advice like i know the first guy longer but he can never be nice to me around his friends like he will say hi but thats it an the second guy is great an i can chill with him an be a friend... so i guess its up to me coz i can tell both like me an hopefully both wouldnt want to hurt me so what should i do i am so confused =S
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reader, iSmil3y  +, writes (19 March 2009):
I agree with the other two answers! Go for the second guy! If the first guy is going to be a jerk and only talk to you and be nice to you when you two are alone, then he's NOT worth your time! The second guy, sounds like a pretty nice guy and like "Boy Crazy" said, you can't do anything really if your best friend likes him too but the best think you could do is have a talk with your friend about how much you like him and give it a shot! Remember, losing a friend over a guy, isn't worth it though but if you really like him, I say, ask him out!
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (19 March 2009):
 choose the person who doesnt change to suit the crowd! the jerk guy sounds false. does he put you down in front of his mates or act aloof and snappy or too cool for school. then when your on your own he butters you up with compliments. the second guy go for him and if your friend has the guts to go for it then let her but if not begin today on getting him. she might have no chance or even have a chance but waste it waiting.
also FYI-if he is hugging you lots he probably likes you
good luck
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (19 March 2009):
Okay if the first guy only opens up to u when you guys are alone then dump him!!! And well if ur friend likes him too well there is nothing really that u can do there but the only advice I've got there is it's better to be his friend that lose him by breakin up!!!
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