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writes: Hi guy's, I'm after a bit of advice really...Not sure where to start to start to be honest, ummmm, well basically I met this girl about 7 months ago and we started dating and going out and everything was happy days, but over the past 2 months I've had a really really stressful time at work, and as I saw her most days that would rub off on her.....She's completly lost her sex drive with me now and obviously I've questioned it but she says it's because she's been too stressed out and cos we've argued quite alot over the past month about stupid things all cos I'm stressed from work....I'm only 20 and she's 22 so there's only 2 years difference, I've just handed my notice in at work so I can relax for a while, spend christmas with her and get a new job that I like after christmas...But what I'm saying is, has this happened to any of you guys out there before cos I'm starting to get a horny fucker lol and it's been like 3 and a half weeks and I really don't no what to do, obviously it's not the be-all-and-end-all of our relationship, but now I've handed my notice in a feel much better and I think things will improve with me and her from now, but any ideas on what I can do about the whole ummmmmm well you?(I always shower her with gifts, LIKE ALL THE TIME, I'm in a decent paid job so moneys never been a issue for me, especially spending it on her) but any other ideas will be greatly appreciated!Cheers guy's!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncheers for the advice guys (and girls lol)...One of you lot said it cannot be stress but it genuinally was, cos id pissed her off so much she didnt even wanna come near me let alone have sex with me....things are sorted now, we had a chat etc at the weekend and sorted things out, (and ummmmmm, well u no lol)!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007): Okay i know im not a guy but i just read through all this and i just have one piece of advice for you...DONT FORGET ABOUT HER, DONT IGNORE HER! Thats NOT the way to get a girl to get in your pants. Just hang in there and see how things go, i bet it'll get better for you to.
oh and one more thing, you can still give her lots of presents, girls love that no matter what, it makes us feel like you care for us, so dont stop.
hope i helped! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): ur story isnt as bad as others lol. i would say wait and see where it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): look u can tell tht she is stressed out......but stop pushing her to have sex w/ u........u r stressed 2......wait untill things calm down a bit then talk 2 her......stress @ work & u pushin her could b the end of ur relationship.......Christmas is a very special time spend it w/ her & the family & soon u guys will b lessed stressed.....if im right & u guys love eachother it will all work itself out.....k
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): Dont shower her with gifts. She is losing respect for you. She may be becoming bored with your obsession with her. I would try finding something new and interesting to focus your energy on and forget about her if she is not meeting your needs. When she finally sees how interesting your life has become, she will want to jump down your pants.
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reader, purifiedhoney  +, writes (22 November 2007):
Sex is pivotal to a relationship. Get to the root of why she doesn't want to have sex with you--it cannot be stress, because honestly, if she wanted to have sex with you, then stress should be why you would want to have sex, not why she wouldn't want to. Get the real answer and go from there.
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