A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Dear Aunt,More than a year ago I met Mr.X . He was one of my business clients. He immediately went after me and he confessed that he loves me a lot, very, very much. He could be too much in love with me then, that he tried to be close and tried to get intimate with me then but I refused his advances and made it clear that we have to draw the line before marriage - no pre-marital sex.Another thing was, certain things, I acted professionally, as he was my client and I clearly represents my Company, I stand by my Company for business matters between him and my Company even if it means that things were disadvantageous for him but advantageous to my Company.Also, I was somewhat harsh and rude towards him in some of our conversations.In less than 2 weeks, he suddenly dump me without warning, explanations and notice. There was no chance of negotiation, he suddenly stop calling, ignore my calls or hang up on me. I felt a sharp pain piercing through my heart, very sharp pain. Even until today, I still think of him very much, keep thinking of what had went wrong, on how to reconcile. When I try to contact him, he would at most speak to me for no more than 1 minute then hang up on me. What should I do, please advise. For your info, I am in my mid 30's and Mr.X is divorced in his late 40's.Despair
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reader, Intrigued40s  +, writes (1 January 2009):
It sounds to me that a man that is so much in love sudenlly is in reallity having a crush.What does he loves of you if he haven't spend time with you to know who you are, what your values, your likes and dislikes. Do you know that a man can "fall in love" with a very nice pair of legs or a pretty face or something else? He may started having a strong desire to touch those parts of your body that he found attractive and since you stop him on his tracts he felt terrybly rejected. If your goal is to be married to have sex then you did the right thing because the type of man who wants it now better goes to another place.
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