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writes: I have ben going out with my boyfriend 2years and im 17 we have had sex and he tells me that it s=is really good for him but it does nothing for me!!??? is there sumthink wrong with me???? Reply to this Question
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (10 August 2006):
 Nothing wrong with you - you see all these media images of women having fab. sex lives and it is assumed it will be the same in real life. That is not to say that you cannot work on that aspect of your relationship so it gets better for you - remember sex is supposed to be about mutual pleasure. If he isn't 'floating your boat' talk to him about it 'gently' (young men are sometimes anxious about their sexual performance) and experiment together so that your sex life is mutually satisfactory, and develop a sense of humour about sex (...lets face it, aliens would laugh at humans doing that!). If he is mature enough to have sex, he should be mature enough to offer you some pleasure too! However, that requires experience and you also knowing your body likes/ dislikes. Do some reading together - not porn, but normal sex guides - book stores are full of them!
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reader, unclerich +, writes (10 August 2006):
your young take time to explore each other to find whats good for the both of you.how do you feel during sex?of course there is nothing wrong with you!!!
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