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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Please help... I am really homesick! I am not sure what to do. I moved away to be with a long distance lover a few years ago. At first living here was wonderful and exciting but as time goes by I am so sad. I find myself having dreams/nightmares about my old life with my friends and family. I am 30 and I know it's time to move forward with my own life but I am a family woman and being 3hrs flight away is so hard for me. I feel very unsettled. I havn't made many friends yet but I know that will come and I am not crazy about his family. I like them but they are VERY culturally different. The true issue is when I have kids I know how expensive and tiring travelling can be. I want them to be a part of my familys life. I am very close to my mother and would want her support. I spoke to my boyfriend about him moving but it is not an option for him right now, he said, Maybe in a few years. I feel that is very risky for my happiness. I can't seem to get over this feeling and it just gets worse as time goes on. I am in love with my boyfriend but maybe I cannot be happy living here. What should I do? I am not getting any younger and don't want to waste much time. Please help!!
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