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writes:At Christmas I met this really nice lad. I'll call him Fred. We talked on MSN for ages and he told everyone he fancies me. He asked me out and said some really nice things to me, but I said no and explained how I wanted to see him again before I said yes. He said this was fine, because I am going to see him next week. But I was looking on his online bebo thing and he's been flirting with loads of girls. We argued about it but I can't get angry because we aren't together. We made up though, and today he barely spoke to me. He said this girl (let's call her Amy) was crying and he was comforting her and that's why he wasnt talking to me. Then he said he made her stop crying and he was just talking to her, and he didn't speak to me. So I said, well if you're not gonna talk to me then I'm going. And he just said bye. Just like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2006): Have you even actually ever met him? I mean does he actually EXIST?! If you've never met him it would be a bit dodgy to fall in love with him as you surely understand the dangers of internet dating. But anywho, if he does exist and you've met him before then i would say it sounds like he's being a bit of a jerk. If he flirts with hundreds of other girls, then sweetie, you just can't be sure if he loves you, and if he does, its sounds like he's cheating on you. Try talking the matter through with him and if he still doesn't get it and carries on ignoring you, finish with him. BUT, I must emphasize WHATEVER you do make sure it's what YOU want. That'll stop you getting hurt. Good Luck x
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reader, Beautiful_Suicide +, writes (14 April 2006):
 heya..I've been in a similar situation to this..I met a guy at a gig and he says he's in love with me but I can't really be angry if he does stuff with other girls because I'm not with him..I have been talking to him sometimes and ended conversations like that..but after a while we just sort of make up you know? If he likes you enough to ask you out he should realise you're upset and apologize..it always happens with me and this guy..try ignoring him for a bit or not talking much and then he'll see what it feels like and realise he can't live without talking to you and apologize...then when he's done that just say like - look I know I'm not with you but I really like you but the thought of you flirting with other girls upsets me do you think you could stop doing it - if he loves you he will try to stop I did it for this other guy..I hope this helps and I hope it all works out for you -- Sass xx
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