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writes:alrite...hmm i kno this seems to b a common Q but i'm relle wondering if i am a lesbian?well i think about girls 24/7 i mean in like a sexual way. n i tend to b attracted more to girls then guys. there is only one guy i care about (sexually n emotionially bsides family) n he broke my heart last year but i got oveer it and him. btu now i'm bak to liking him all over again...n i mean loving not liking. but i don't like the idea of giving him head or giving him a hand job at all...but the thought of (vaginal) sex w/ him turns me on soo much. n i don't understand that at all. i think about women all the time i love the way they are so gentle and caring and always concerned abotu ur feelings n emotions.so am i a liesbian even thoguh i would gladly have sex w/ this ONE guy or is it just the thought oor penetration tht is turning me on? thn for reading, sry bout the length.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): I think at every point in a woman's life she wonders how a relationship would be with a woman. And some straight women do find themselves thinking about other women in a sexual way sometimes hormones control your sexual thoughts and sometimes it's just a desire to want to try different things. Figuring out if your lesbian or not is a very tough thing to go through in life but at one point in your life this question will have to be answered and not by anyone else’s standards nor judgement but by your own. I think if you are attracted to a female than why not try a relationship with her. The things you regret in life are those in which you don't try. Sorry for the late answers. Hope I helped
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reader, angel_of_xbl +, writes (15 November 2007):
angel_of_xbl is verified as being by the original poster of the question thnx u gys for the help i appreciate it.
i have kissed girs n yeh i do like it...alot. but i don't get why it is just the thoguht of sex with him turns me on. nothing else relle does. no he isn't my b/f he is just a relle good friend of mine, but yeh i was joking with my firends tht i'm a Bi-curious...Lesbian. i think it is tru but idk. thn
thnx againg for everything
XO
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reader, hello1  +, writes (12 November 2007):
 You are bisexual, thats for sure. You aren't a lesbian as you fancy a guy and want to have sex with him, you are most properly bisexual but lean more towards women. Theres nothing wrong with that! your find out more about yourself when you get older
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reader, JoJoe +, writes (12 November 2007):
 Hiya,
wow good question !
hmm i think you could potentially be a lesbian, you would porbly have to kiss a girl to find out.
Dont worry tough it could also be to do with your boyfriend messing you around and you want somone more caring.
ITs totaly up to you just remember its your life if you want to be a lesbain thats totaly up to you.
just have a sit and think to yourself aout what you really want..
and if i was you ad quikly get over the lad messsing you around you deserve better.
best of luck ! x x
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