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writes: I've been seeing my boyfriend for just over a month now. I finished my boyfriend and everything for him. But recently I've been having doubts about him loving me. He tells me he does, and that I'm so funny, but I don't think I believe him. I love him so much, but the other day I got told he's seeing another girl. They've both denied it, but they make each other laugh and go on about each other. I don't want to talk to him about it because I'm scared he'll say he is, and I cry all the time about it. What could I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, AMY1972 +, writes (2 April 2005):
Hi,The only way that you can really know for sure is to ask him. I know that the thought of him telling you that you are right and he has been seeing this other girl terrifies you, but you can not go on wondering because it is eating you up inside. You have the strength to ask him, but do only just ask him. Don't demand answers or question him over and over again. You then have the decision to make if he tells you that he is not seeing the other girl. You either accept this answer and put the thought out of your head or you still doubt him in which case do you really want to build a relationship without trust.Best of Luck
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