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writes:Dear Cupid,Background: I met a guy at a concert. After talking and dancing the whole night, we exchanged #s. Then, we sent flirty texts to each other and finally met up last Sunday for afternoon drinks, which turned into a fun night of hanging out with his friends. This Sunday, we met up again for karaoke. We closed down the bar and ended up going back to his place--where we talked all night until 5 a.m. I told him I was really tired, so he said, "Ok. Let's go to bed, then." I was going to call a cab to pick me up and take me home, but he said that I could just stay with him. So, we slept together on his bed, fully clothed. There was no hugging, snuggling, or kissing. Then, this morning, we woke up, laid on our sides facing each other, and talked for a few hours more. Finally, he drove me home around 1 p.m. today. Here is my question: Does he want to just be my friend, or is he interested in me for more? If he does like me, why didn't he make a move? Is he trying to take it slow? Or...?On a side note, I kind of like this non-physical closeness. It's rather nice getting to know someone--friend or more.Anyway, thanks for your answers and advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2014): I think it sounds awesome and fun. I think this guy genuinely likes you. I am sure he wants to have sex with you, but it is not his only intention. I think he thinks you are fun and cool. And that is why he is not putting the moves on you just yet because he actually likes you.
Take it slow and keep talking, goofing around and enjoying each other. There is nothing better than having a relationship with someone that you got to know really well and a relationship you both had to wait for.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 October 2014):
 He may just be a take it slow kind of guy... and I think if you are enjoying this then just go with the flow for a bit before asking him how he feels or what he thinks.
if after 3 months you are still at this stage then I think you can ask what is going on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2014): Sounds like someone who respects you, and worth spending more time with :-) it's rather nice he didn't make a move and has valued your company and conversation. Just keep hanging out and getting to know each other.
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